Piggy Bank Advisor®

Books.

Pages with pictures. Some with words. Some without.

When parents ask me, as a pediatric speech-language pathologist, “What can I do to support my child?”, they’re often expecting an answer involving flashcards, apps, or the latest
educational toy.

Instead, my response for children five and under is almost always much simpler:

Talk with your child.

Read with your child.

These are some of the highest-yield investments you can make in your child’s long-term health and development.

Shared Reading Isn’t About Reading Every Word

If the idea of reading with your child brings up thoughts like:

  • “They don’t like books.”
  • “They get bored.”
  • “They can’t understand the story anyway.”

You’re not alone – and you’re not doing anything wrong.

Shared book reading doesn’t mean sitting still and reading every word on the page.

It means engaging with a book together.

That might look like:

  • Pointing to pictures and naming what you see
  • Talking about what a character is doing or feeling
  • Making sounds, gestures, or silly comments
  • Letting your child turn pages, skip pages, or linger on one picture

The book is just the starting point. The real value is in the interaction.

Why Shared Reading Matters (Even Before Kids Can “Read”)

Research consistently shows that early exposure to language and books has long-term effects on learning. A child’s early vocabulary is strongly linked to later reading and academic outcomes, not because of drilling or testing – but because of meaningful, repeated language experiences.

Shared reading:

  • Expands vocabulary naturally
  • Builds attention and listening stamina
  • Supports early problem-solving and reasoning
  • Strengthens emotional understanding and empathy
  • Reinforces connection and attachment

And most importantly- it teaches children that communication is something you do together, not something you’re tested on.

Focus on interaction and enjoyment

Not every child is naturally drawn to books right away – and that’s okay.

When reading starts to feel forced or overly instructional, children can learn to associate books with pressure instead of connection. For some kids, especially those with different language styles or high energy levels, that can turn reading into something they avoid.

The goal early on isn’t to finish a story or teach specific skills.

It’s to create positive experiences around books.

When children feel relaxed, interested, and supported, engagement grows naturally.

Piggy Bank Advisor Tips:

  • There’s no “right” way to read a book. If your child wants to skip pages, talk about the pictures,
    or read the same page five times – you’re doing it right. The connection matters more than the
    story.
  • Follow your child’s lead. Let them choose the book, turn the pages, or decide what to talk
    about. Shared reading works best when it feels like play, not a lesson.
  • You don’t have to finish the book. Two engaged minutes is more valuable than ten distracted
    ones. Small, consistent moments add up – just like saving.
  • Talk with your child, not at them. Comment, wonder, and model language instead of quizzing.
    Books are a conversation starter, not a test.
  • This is a long-term investment. You may not see results right away – but shared reading
    compounds over time, supporting language, learning, and connection well into the future.

If you want language you can share with your child, below is a simple, kid-facing way to explain shared reading using the Piggy Bank Advisor focus on heart, mind, and body.

Piggy Bank Advisor: A Simple Way to Explain Reading to Your Child

When talking with children, Piggy Bank Advisor focuses on three parts of health: heart, mind, and body. You might explain reading like this:

Healthy Heart: Reading together helps us feel close and notice feelings.
Healthy Mind: Books help your brain grow by learning new words and ideas.
Healthy Body: Holding the book, turning pages, and pointing help your hands and body get stronger.

You do not need to say all of this every time. Even occasionally naming why you read together can help children see books as something that supports their whole self, not just school skills.

Shared Reading Through the Health401k® Lens

At Health401k®, we think about health as a portfolio- not a single outcome. Shared reading is
powerful because it spans multiple dimensions of health at once.

Intellectual Health
Books expose children to new ideas, experiences, and words-often ones they don’t encounter in
daily routines. Talking about pictures, actions, and stories builds the foundation for thinking,
learning, and curiosity.

Emotional Health
Stories give children a safe way to explore feelings-both their own and others’. Naming emotions, noticing facial expressions, and wondering aloud (“He looks frustrated-why do you think that is?”) helps children build emotional awareness and regulation.

Social Health
Shared reading is a relationship-builder. Sitting together, following your child’s lead, and giving undivided attention strengthens connection and trust. It models turn-taking, listening, and shared focus – skills that carry into friendships and classrooms.

Physical Health
For young children, books are also tools for movement. Holding a book, turning pages, lifting flaps, and pointing to pictures all support fine motor development and coordination.

Environmental Health
Creating a predictable, cozy reading routine-on the couch, before bed, or after lunch-helps children associate their environment with safety, calm, and connection.

And that’s just the early years. Over time, these experiences compound – much like interest in a
savings account.

Closing Thoughts

You do not need fancy tools.

No apps.

No worksheets.

No “educational” gadgets.

Just you, your child, and a book.

The return on this investment is not immediate or flashy, but it is steady, durable, and long-lasting. Shared reading supports connection, communication, and learning in ways that build over time.

At Health401k®, we believe people change people™. For young children, that change often starts at home, in simple, everyday moments like reading together.

This approach is grounded in research on early language development and shared book reading, but most importantly, it is built to fit real families and real lives.


Adria S. Woods, M.S.Ed, CCC-SLP

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